Abanye abantu etafileni yewayini abakwazi ukusela iiglasi eziliwaka, kwaye abanye abantu banokunxila emva nje kokuba enye. Ukusela, ungakhathali malunga nesixa esikhulu okanye esincinci, yazi indlela yokuzonwabisa kuyo, ujabulele ubumnandi yeyona ntlonipho enkulu yobomi.
“Ukunxila” kwenza abahlobo babe nothando ngakumbi.
Njengoko intetho isitsho, “iwaka leekomityi zewayini inqabile xa udibana nomhlobo osenyongweni.” Kuyintsikelelo enkulu ukudibana nomhlobo osenyongweni kwitafile yewayini. Xa ningenanto yakwenza, mema abahlobo ngababini nababini, nihlale ngasesitratweni, nisele etafileni, ncokolani ngemicimbi yentsapho nize nincokole ngobomi.
Zifake kweli xesha lokuphumla nabahlobo bakho, awudingi magama amaninzi, jonga nje kwaye abahlobo bakho baya kukuqonda. Zonke izinto ezingenamsebenzi zobomi, unxunguphalo emsebenzini, nokungabi nakuzinceda ebomini zonke zikwiglasi yewayini.
"Ukunxila" kwenza incasa yedolophu yasekhaya ibe mnandi ngakumbi.
Ikhaya licala ledolophu; iwayini yincasa yedolophu yasekhaya. Ummandla ngamnye unewayini yawo ekhethekileyo kunye nokutya okukhethekileyo. Nyaka ngamnye kuhambo lokubuyela ngexesha loMnyhadala waseNtwasahlobo, abazali bahlala befaka ibhokisi epheleleyo yezinto zabantwana babo, kuquka iwayini nemifuno. Kubantu abazulazulayo abazulazula ngaphandle unyaka wonke, ukutya kugcwele umlomo kukutya kwasekhaya nokusela iwayini yasekhaya yeyona ntuthuzelo inkulu ebomini.
Xa kufika uMnyhadala weNtwasahlobo kunyaka ozayo, abazula-zula abavela kwihlabathi lonke babuyela kumakhaya abo. Ingcamango yosapho lwabantu baseTshayina, indlela yokuziphatha kunye nothando losapho zonke ziqulethwe kwiglasi yewayini, esele ithathe amawaka eminyaka kwaye idluliselwe kude kube namhlanje.
“Ukunxila” kwenza uthando olusentliziyweni lube nothando ngakumbi.
Awazi ukuba ngubani okuthandayo de ugule, kwaye awuzazi ukuba uthanda bani xa unxilile. Nangona iyinto ehlekisayo, akukho sizathu. Ngaba ukhe ukhumbule ukuba uphambene ngothando emva kokusela, kunye neentlungu entliziyweni yakho xa ucinga ngaloo TA emva kokusela?
Kukho ubukrakra nobumnandi eluthandweni. Xa sisentlungwini ngenxa yothando, sihlala sicinga ngewayini. Utywala lunohlobo lwamandla omlingo, oluvumela abantu ukuba babaleke okwethutyana kwi-cage yenyani, babuyele kwisiqu kwaye bafikelele ngokuthe ngqo kwintliziyo yokuqala. Emva kokunxila, into endidla ngokungacingi ngayo okanye ukuyithetha, into endibhideke ngayo yinyani kwaye ndingakwazi ukuyibona ngokucacileyo, icace kakhulu ngeli xesha. Abantu bayanxila, kodwa intliziyo iphaphile.
Izilumko zamandulo zilolodwa, ngabaselayo kuphela abagcina amagama abo. Izilumko kunye nezilumko zifana nabantu abaqhelekileyo njengathi, into abayiselayo yiwayini, into abayikhuphayo kwinkxalabo yabo, kwaye into abayibeke ezintliziyweni zabo yimvakalelo. Yisele xa wonwabile, sela xa uphoxekile, sela xa unemincili, sela xa unomsindo, sela xa sohlukana, usele xa sele siphinde sadibana.
Kunzima kubantu abasoloko benxilile ukubuxabisa ubuhle obuchubekileyo ebomini. Abantu abafanele banxile "banxilile" kwaye bayazi indlela yokunandipha ubomi kunye nokuziva iimvakalelo phakathi kwabantu.
Isiselo esinxilisayo siyamnandi, kodwa isiselo esinxilisayo siyawulimaza umzimba. Utywala yinto elungileyo, kodwa musa ukubawa.
Ixesha lokuposa: Jan-29-2023