Abanye abantu kwitheyibhile ye wayini abakwazi ukusela iwaka leeglasi, kwaye abanye abantu banokunxila emva kwenye nje. Ukusela, ungakhathali malunga nenani elikhulu okanye elincinci, lazi indlela yokuzibandakanya kuyo, ukonwabela ukonwaba yeyona ntlonelo inkulu ngobomi.
"Ukunxila" kwenza ukuba abahlobo banothando ngakumbi.
Njengoko intetho ihamba, "iwaka lendebe le wayini inqabile xa udibana nomhlobo we-bosom." Yintsikelelo enkulu ukudibana nomhlobo wesifuba kwitafile yewayini. Xa ungenanto yakwenza, cela abahlobo babini kwaye babini, bahlale ecaleni kwesitrato, basela etafileni, bancokole ngemicimbi yosapho, kwaye bathethe ngobomi.
Ukuzibandakanya kweli xesha lokuzonwabisa kunye nabahlobo bakho, awudingi mazwi amaninzi, jonga nje kwaye abahlobo bakho baya kukuqonda. Yonke imicimbi yobomi, ukukhathazeka kwindawo yokusebenza, kunye nokungancedisi ebomini bonke kwiglasi ye wayini.
"Ukunxila" kwenza ukuba incasa ye-reetown inobumnandi ngakumbi.
Ikhaya lolwalathiso lwedolophu; Iwayini yingca yedolophu. Ummandla ngamnye une wayini ekhethekileyo kunye nokutya okhethekileyo. Nyaka ngamnye kuhambo lokubuya ngexesha lomthendeleko wentwasahlobo, abazali bahlala befakelwa ibhokisi yonke ezele zizinto zabantwana babo, kubandakanya iwayini nemifuno. Kubabhalisi abaye babhadula ngaphandle unyaka wonke, besitya ukutya okunenkuni kunye nokusela umlomo kwi wayini yendlu yedolophu ekhulileyo kakhulu ebomini.
Xa uMthendeleko weNtwasahlobo Ufika kunyaka olandelayo, abaphambukeli abavela kwihlabathi liphela babuyela kumakhaya abo. Umxholo wentsapho yamaTshayina, imigaqo-nkqubo kunye nothando losapho zonke ziyiglasi yewayini, esele idlulile ukuza kuthi ga namhlanje.
"Ukunxila" kwenza uthando entliziyweni luthando ngakumbi.
Anazi ukuba ngubani okuthandayo de uyagula, kwaye awuyazi ukuba ngubani othanda ukuba unxilile. Nangona kuyinto ehlekisayo, ayikho ngaphandle kwesizathu. Ngaba ukhe ukhumbule ukuba uphambene ngothando emva kokusela, kunye nentlungu entliziyweni yakho xa ucinga ngale nto emva kokusela?
Kukho ubukrakra kunye nobumnandi eluthandweni. Xa sikwintlungu yothando, sihlala sicinga nge wayini. Utywala bunohlobo lwamandla omlingo, evumela abantu ukuba babaleke okwethutyana i-cage yenyani, zibuyele ngokwakho kwaye zifikelela ngqo kwintliziyo yoqobo. Emva kokuba enxila, le nto bendihlala ndingayicingi okanye nditsho, into endididayo yenene kwaye ayiboni kakuhle, icacile ngalo mzuzu. Abantu banxila, kodwa intliziyo iphaphile.
I-Saser Sater Santu iBonely, kuphela abaseli bagcina amagama abo. I-Sassis kunye ne-Sases zifana nabantu nje abaqhelekileyo njengathi, oko bakuselayo yiwayini, oko bakuphelisa iixhala labo, kwaye okubekelayo ezintliziyweni zabo yimvakalelo. Sela xa wonwabile, yisela xa udanile, usele xa uvuya xa usahlula, kwaye usele xa uphindaphindwe.
Kunzima kubantu abasoloko bethandabuza ubuhle obufihlakeleyo ebomini. Abantu abanxilayo "banxila" kwaye bayazi indlela owonwaba ngayo ebomini kwaye baziva bephakathi kweemvakalelo phakathi kwabantu.
Isiselo esincinci simnandi, kodwa i-idonk enkulu iphazamisa umzimba. Utywala yinto entle, kodwa musa ukubawa.
IXESHA LOKUQALA: UJan-29-20233